o matter how happy or how successful I think I am. The chances are that there are things I still want or have yet to accomplish in my life. But most of us wouldn’t describe ourselves as being particularly happy or successful. Most people are all too aware of what we have yet to accomplish and would probably argue that the things we want outweigh the things we already have. Many of us feel helpless to choose the direction of our lives or to know precisely what it is we need to do in order to get what we want. We’re safe, we’re healthy, we’re fed. But we’re also tired. Many of us are lonely. A lot of us dread going into work every day. Our homes are too small for us and they’re too messy.
We’re safe, we’re healthy, we’re fed. But we’re also tired. Many of us are lonely. A lot of us dread going into work every day. Our homes are too small for us and they’re too messy.
And most of us are so busy to do anything about it, because we’re all so hooked up to the matrix. We can’t see the way out into the meadow and garden of Eden.
Or at least that’s what we’ve been led to think. In this article I am going to share with you how I took back control of my life so you can take back control of your own life and how you can begin to cultivate the mindset to get anything that you want in life. And it starts with just taking the first simple step.
Appreciate What I Already Have More
The very first step I took in creating more abundance in my life was to first appreciate what I already had and what my ancestors had already provided for me. If you are already doing this, well done! Keep going.
But a lot of us are so fixated on what we want and what isn’t quite right, that we forget to take stock of what we have already accomplished and what’s right in front of our eyes we see every day, but might not truly value.
This is a habit we might want to kick out our lives ASAP because otherwise, we’ll never feel as though we have the life we want!
A good way I started to learn how to appreciate what I had already, was to start developing a habit of adopting the ‘gratitude attitude’. And a good way to do that is to take five minutes every day to write down three things that you’re grateful for. I’d also like you to write down three things you’ve done well and three things you’re proud of for that day, week, month or year.
You might just find that you’re doing a lot better than you think!
Learning To Know What I Don’t Really Need
One of the reasons I think we don’t get what we want is, that we get so distracted by all the things that we don’t need, but think we do or at least think that we need right now this second.
Many of us feel tired and overworked because we’ve taken on responsibilities at work to earn money, we need but at the detriment of us cultivating a life for ourselves outside of work so we can create a path for ourselves to leave this hask matrix. Many of us feel pressure to work harder because we’ve gotten into debt buying expensive TVs and furniture. We trying to keep up with what the world tells us is success and we feel that we are so far behind due to our fore ancestors coming out of slavery.
But do those things really add to our happiness?
And ultimately, are those overtimes we fight to do really adding to our lives or just taking time away from us and family who truly matter?
Come on my lovelies, let us now begin to clear some space in our lives, by removing the clutters that we have accumulated in our minds about ourselves and what we should be by the westernised standards so we can begin to then focus on what does truly makes us happy and continent. Whether that’s travel, starting a new business, whether that’s family, or whether that’s a hobby we’re passionate about.
Oh I Have To Learn To Be Positive
Positivity goes a long, long way and is a huge helping hand to us getting and archiving more out of life and in our life. In fact, there are countless studies that show how being positive can make you more successful.
There are many reasons for this. Firstly, positive people are happier because they are naturally inclined to adopt the gratitude attitude. Likewise, positive people tend to take more chances because they believe there is a better chance of a positive outcome! Positive people smile more, which causes other people to gravitate toward them. The list goes on!
So overall is not a bad attitude to uphold in our daily practice of knowing self.
Adopt a Habit for Self-Development
I’ve come to inner-stand over the years on my awakening journey that, Self-development was crucial for me getting what I wanted out of life.
The problem is that too many of us think that life will just hand us what we want on a plate. We’re effectively waiting for things to turn around. What we don’t realise is that it’s down to us to get out there and make it happen.
We can tap into our ancestorial line and call upon them to help and guide us in whatever we endeavour to take.
And that requires a whole lot of energy, drive, passion and skill. We need to be confident enough to mingle, network and put ourselves out there. We need to be wittier, we need to be a better communicator, we need to have more energy so we can work those longer hours on those side hustles and get out of the matrix.
Many people read books telling them how to get what they want and when it doesn’t work for them, they blame the book. But did they actually put the problem into action? Or were they frozen because they were too tired, too scared or too stressed?
We need to start by investing more time and effort into us, our inner selves, so that we can become the best version of us we can be. That might mean that we take out the necessary time to invest in us. Overcome our fears, big or small. (this is incredibly beneficial) or it might mean that we exercise so we have more energy to do what we dream of doing and change our lives.
It’s time for us to Identify our weaknesses and overcome them, one step at a time.
Vinny
I was directed here, enjoyable read!